How to become monogamous

There are two main subjects in culture: someone cheated on someone and someone did not cheat on someone, but hesitated. That is, a person by nature is not monogamous, even when he wants to be so. However, there are techniques by which one can incline oneself to monogamy at least temporarily.

  • INCREASE OXYTOCINE

This is a hormone that makes a person sticky and sedentary. Rats definitely do, well, a man, too. Research is still underway.
“Oxytocin grows from tactile contact – which means you need to touch the girl more often. And look into the eyes longer. Her oxytocin will also rise, and attachment will increase mutually. ” Unless, of course, this is a familiar girl.

  • Take care more

“It is believed that care evokes love in response. But in fact, it causes love just from the one who cares. “
Not even love, but attachment to your investments: when you spent a lot of effort on something, it’s hard to refuse. If you want to become attached to a girl more – take care of her more.

  • Tell personal

There is a well-known test by Dr. Aron: two people of different sexes answer each other 36 intimate questions according to the standard list and look into eyes for 4 minutes. (A double-count test can be found on the Web for “36 questions to fall in love”)

As a result, after 36 answers expressed aloud, quite often the couple taking the test have mutual sympathy. You can even fall in love. Because for ancient firmware in the brain, trusting someone means that it is a close member of the pack. And the more you tell your friend about yourself, the stronger your feelings for her.

By Cindy
February 18, 2020